frequently asked questions

I recommend allowing at least an extra half hour for most sessions I like to have a thorough chat before we begin to connect with you. When you arrive, we will discuss your interests, your experience, your boundaries/limits, and your health you don't need to fear being open with me about your fantasies; your honest communication in this area will greatly enhance our session experience. I need to know about any health problems, physical limitations, or recent surgeries/injuries you may have you will also have to let me know if you can't be marked.

I use the universal "Traffic light" safe word system

RED - ALL play stops

YELLOW - ALL play slows down

GREEN - Is a GO!

I'm located in Madison Wisconsin on the westside.

No. My safety is more important than your kinks, without proper vetting you can not session with Me. However, all information is kept confidential & for My eyes only. Thank you for your understanding.

No, the minimum age to session with me is 18, you will have to show proof of this before we session. If you wish to accompany me to an event you must be at least 21 & you will have to show proof before I will allow you to attend said event. 

I currently work from a domestic setting, and I utilize everyday furniture and items for a natural style of setting.  Something I really enjoy is using everyday items for my scenes, you'd be surprised what I am able to do with clothes pegs and a wooden spoon!  My current tools of the trade available to use are comprised of the following kit:

Floggers/Paddles/Close pegs/Leash & lead/Riding crop/Nipple clamps/Meat tenderizer/Heels/socks//boots/canes/hand cuffs

For those that may need or want it yes I do, however, I am not a mind reader please inform me of the type of aftercare you may require. As long as it doesn't push my boundaries I will be more than happy to help.

Yes, while I love my subs😉 I will session with anyone no matter their role, as long as you are respectful. 

There is no easy way, you must give your time, energy, and be willing to get to know me as a person in all aspects of my life not just when you want to, as I will be getting to know you as well. You must serve as a paying client in a consistent manner for at least a year before I will even consider having this conversation. If you are flakey & or only see me once every few months that does not give us time to form a strong D/s bond. 

 If there is an item you would like used and I don't have it consider going to my wish list and ordering it, you may send a gift card however please allow it to come before you book a session. Buy it for me before your session as a gift. Or you can bring it along if you have it your comfort is important. 

No, I do not allow overnights, in my domestic setting however, I can arrange a hotel room for an additional fee. Payment is due at the time of booking in addition to the deposit. At this time I only allow for 1 day, If you are inquiring about a return visit over the course of a set number of days, that will need to be discussed in some detail during the application process. 

All sexes are welcome it does not matter your sex, race, age, body type. All I ask is you give Me the respect I give you. 

No, we can not play before you pay to see if we match well. 

The session deposit is nonrefundable. If I am a no-show or have to cancel, when possible I will contact you within 24 hours to allow you to re-book. If you have to cancel there is a set time you have to rebook, however, there is a $50 cancellation fee pulse the remaining balance please remember that before you book a session. If you are a no-call, no-show, you have 1 chance to session with me again, however, you will have to pay the full amount upfront no exceptions. If you do this a second time you will be blacklisted for life. As you have shown to not respect my time.

Do Not attempt to negotiate the tribute set forth by Me. Committing such a blatant act of disrespect will NOT be tolerated and you will be barred from the session.

No, I will not give you a long description of how the session will play out. 

No, I do not offer sexual contact of any kind for clients as in NO-Vaginal penetration / Anal penetration / Oral sex/ Hand jobs / Foot jobs / Kissing you anywhere on your body, meaning I am NOT a full-service sex worker. I do allow you to kiss My feet. 

I have applications that ask specific questions for a reason. If I ask what day & you put ASAP, when you have time, today. that gives me no information on when I should set aside time for you in fact when you put things like this it puts more stress on me now having to contact you & wait for a reaponse.

Your application may also have been rejected due to not paying the mandatory deposit after submitting the application. My time is important if what I ask can not be respected we can not session.

You were found to have to many red flags and being safe is extremely important.